Two of the things I strongly recommend in my article on important things to do prior to marrying are a) take some time out for yourself to get any of the ‘’I wish I had done this when I was single” list out of the way – and b) most importantly, attend a Relationship Workshop together with a Life Alignment Practioner or Life Coach to examine and talk about the important emotional and personal aspects of making life with your partner workable. Get some great advice on these and much more here - (Link to article) and share it with anyone considering marriage soon. https://www.selfandmore.co.za/important-things-to-do-before-you-say-i-do/
So, what are what I believe to be the three most critical reasons that so many marriages end in demise? – 1.Financial disparity, 2. The wrong marriage contract and 3. Non-aligned personalities and unresolved issues. I examine and unpack all of these in an insightful article on my website and it is well worth a read if it is important to you to ensure your marriage will be built on a solid foundation – Share it too with anyone considering marriage in the near future - https://www.selfandmore.co.za/important-things-to-do-before-you-say-i-do/
One of the biggest pre-marital fears, and the one that often leaves the Bride or Groom standing alone at the altar as their spouse makes a break for it out the side door of the Church, is that you are going to lose out on all the great things a single life can offer you. Well, there are advantages to being single and MARRIAGE IS DIFFICULT. Couples soon to be married need to realise that most marriages end in divorce and ask the 64 million dollar question – ‘’why is this so?’’ – Find out from this great article – and share it with anyone tying the knot soon – read more … https://www.selfandmore.co.za/important-things-to-do-before-you-say-i-do/
Lindi van der Linde
In collaboration with a couple of trusted colleagues, I have recently penned an article on ‘Important things to do before you say ‘’I do!’’ this is a must read for any engaged couples or even those considering marriage somewhere down the line. Read and share it with anyone you know for whom wedding bells may soon chime - https://www.selfandmore.co.za/important-things-to-do-before-you-say-i-do/
For many of us, flight from the fears we are currently experiencing is not an option, so it’s time for us to be more resourceful and open to alternate possibilities in the midst of what may seem like chaos.
As a Master Coach, through my Coaching platform Self and More, I facilitate the combination of body, mind and soul practices to enable people in all walks of life to enjoy positive, productive lives with meaning and purpose, regardless of whatever trauma or circumstances they may have or be facing.