Urban war-zones, trauma and release.

Urban war-zones, trauma and release.

In October this year, a group of TRE® practitioners began a six-week group session with 53 ladies from Bonteheuwel, in the so-called “urban war-zone area” of the Cape Flats. Started in 2007 and calling themselves the Bonteheuwel Walking Ladies, they began meeting for informal walks around the Bonteheuwel perimeter.

While they initially started the group for exercise and companionship, it became apparent that, through many conversations, another common ground existed.

These ladies, based on their stories of being in the midst of drugs, poverty, children on the street, gang violence and more, would certainly resonate with the classical definition of ‘trauma’. It is a term used to describe experiences or situations that are emotionally painful and distressing and that has a direct effect on our ability to cope, as human beings. Often, this leaves us with feelings of powerlessness, anger and despair. Trauma has also been described in reference to circumstances and are outside of what we perceive as our “normal” human experience. Trauma can occur frequently and become part of our common everyday experience, without us becoming aware of it as we “just carry on regardless'”

Apart from some of the obvious events in our lives, such as intentional violence or even witnessing violence, a vehicle accident or chaotic life conditions, it may also come as a result of daily or prolonged exposure to more subtle threats: the prolonged grief from the passing of a loved one, discrimination, the serious emotional effects of long-term ill-health (whether ours or a loved ones), ongoing emotional abuse, being under constant pressure to perform, and more.

Whether these circumstances are real or perceived is the anomaly.

After six-weeks of TRE® with the,Bonteheuwel Walking Ladies, this is what some of the TRE® Providers had to say:

“After only three weeks the ladies are experiencing an inner sense of calm, better sleep, less stress and aches in their bodies…feel at one with themselves…they live on the Cape Flats but refuse to be flattened by poverty, abuse, crime and ill health…they take time each week to shake off the burden of their battles…I love their stubborn heats…in the middle of it all, the teach me life.”

The Bonteheuwel Walking Ladies have found a way to manage the release of the heightened levels of stress, by starting on their TRE® journey. Come and see what this simple, completely natural process can do for you.

There’s magic everywhere.

There’s magic everywhere.

Here we are again, at the end of another year. If I knew where all the time went, I would bottle it and put it on shelf, ready to hand it over to the next person who needs it 🙂

While we each personally have a reason to remember 2016, 2016 may very well have a reason to remember us. It seems that, this year, close to 300 of our musicians found themselves becoming members of the Dead Rock Stars Club.

While we do recall and remember some of the obvious ones, such as David Bowie, Prince and Glenn Frey (of The Eagles, shame on you if you had to ask), how many of us are aware that on the 26th of January this year, Colin Vearncombe became a member by way of complications from a car accident?

Many of us will not know who this is. Some will. Still more will know him by his stage name and by his iconic 1987 classic. Here is how the song starts. Feel free to sing along:

Here I go out to sea again
The sunshine fills my hair
And dreams hang in the air
Gulls in the sky and in my blue eye
You know it feels unfair
There’s magic everywhere
Look at me standing
Here on my own again
Up straight in the sunshineNo need to run and hide
It’s a wonderful, wonderful life
No need to laugh and cry
It’s a wonderful, wonderful life
Look at yourself standing, up straight in the sunshine. Look at how far you have come this year. Look at what you have accomplished and what you have let go of. Look at the world around you and see that by standing up on your own in the sunshine, you radiate that sunshine and create, truly, for yourself and for those that you love and care for, a wonderful, wonderful life.

So from me a big thank you for your support over the year and for sharing your sunshine with me, as I in turn shared mine with you. I wish you safe travels if you are away, and the blessing of those close to you if you are staying in.

May 2017 bring much magic.

Love and light,

Marléne.

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